Life's wierd sometimes.. I've always suffered from what I'd like to call the Hero Syndrome.. I'm the guy to call after a nasty breakup to vent... or in the middle of the night if you're stranded and need a ride... or take care of annoying stalker type people... You get the point? Im the who you gonna call guy... There are downsides... which is probably why people never return the favor... I get too involved... Im furiously protective of people I care about... and I tend to give unwanted advice when all people need is a patient ear...
But what does one do when somebody you really care about is upset and hurting... and you cant help but feel that you're responsible... I havent quite mastered the art of giving people space... Dont quite know how to ride away from the dragon...
stay away from the agony aunt slot. Really.
ReplyDeleteIts brutally painful and thankless!